Open when letters

Open when letters, online and sealed until the day.

Write letters for the days your partner will need one. Each stays sealed until the right moment, and lives at one private link.

Free while in early access.

"Open when" letters on a string, each sealed with a wax heart, one locked with a question

Why write open when letters online?

Paper open when letters are lovely, and easy to open early. Online, a letter can be truly sealed. You choose when it opens: on a date, even a year away, or only after they answer a question that only they would know.

Each letter can carry more than words. Add a photo, a short video or a voice note, so on a hard day they can actually hear you. A one-time letter remembers the moment it was first opened, and says when afterwards.

They live inside your private gift website, behind a passcode, next to your story and your places.

Good letters are short and specific. Name the thing you love about them, remind them of a moment only the two of you share, and tell them what you would do if you were there. A photo of that moment says the rest.

How the letters work

A sample gift's welcome page: polaroid photos around a passcode box asking when their story began

Behind one passcode.

The whole gift opens with an answer only they would know, like the date your story began.

The keepsake book: each moment of the story laid out on paper, with a Save as PDF button

Kept on paper too.

The keepsake book lays the gift out on paper, to save as a PDF or print.

The same welcome page in four themes: Midnight, Garden, Scrapbook and Neon night

Nine themes.

Love letter, Midnight, Garden, Scrapbook and more. Each has its own seal.

A sample gift's love story timeline, each moment with a date, a place and photos

Next to your story.

The letters sit beside your moments, each with a date, photos and the story behind it.

Open when letter ideas

  • Open when you miss me.
  • Open when you can't sleep.
  • Open when you've had a bad day.
  • Open when you need a laugh.
  • Open when it's your birthday.
  • Open when we've had our first fight.
  • Open when you're proud of yourself.
  • Open on our next anniversary.

How to write them

  1. Pick your link. Sign up and choose a link with their name or both of yours, like alex-sam.xotale.com.
  2. Fill in your story. Write each letter, finish the line "Open when..." and choose a date, a question, or both to seal it.
  3. Seal it and send it. Set a passcode only they would know, like a date that matters, then send the link.

Questions, answered.

Can they open a letter early?

No. A letter sealed until a date stays shut until then, and the words stay on our server until it opens.

Can I add photos or my voice?

Yes. Each letter can have a photo, a video or a voice note as well as the words.

Can I add more letters later?

Yes. Start with a few and add more whenever you like. The link stays the same.

Are open when letters only for long distance?

Not at all. They are a lovely gift for any couple, at home or apart.

Letters for later, sealed with a kiss.

Pick your link now, while it is free. Then write the first one.